Tuesday, June 15, 2010

A week in China






Haven’t had much time to blog lately… In the month of April, I probably logged close to 10,000 flight miles, and worked 27 out of 30 days that month. In May, I found myself sick at the beginning of the month, while traveling to LA on a “slow week”. I had to use all my hotel points to stay two nights at a hotel in Santa Monica, because I was too sick to drive home to San Diego, or even drive a few miles to a lower point-level hotel. It was odd to be staying at a hotel in a city I used to call home. I smile every time I think of Santa Monica… but right now, I’m missing San Diego, following a week of meetings, dinners, a walk on the wall and braving the crowds of tourists at the World Expo in Shanghai.

We arrived in Beijing on Wednesday morning, and believe it or not, after a 12 hour flight, I was not ready to get off the plane. I was actually looking forward to that flight, as I’d finally get to sleep a full 8-10 hours (following a week-long conference in Kansas City, and a spontaneous 48-hour road trip back to San Diego). Beijing was rather grey as expected, but we were fortunate to have relatively cool weather for the first few days we were there. I could probably write an entire blog about the food we ate in China.

As most of our advisers’ tours go, food would be an integral part of sharing the culture of the region where we place students abroad.
The first night, we hopped on a parade of rickshaws and snapped pictures while our drivers peddled through small alleyways to an old authentic Chinese Restaurant where Peking Duck was the featured dish. We were served sliced roasted duck, and provided with small wrappers (similar to those used for cold Vietnamese spring rolls), and were instructed on how to prepare the treat with plum sauce, cucumbers or other vegetables and slices of the duck meat. I was surprised at how much I actually liked the dish. I’d once ordered duck from a fancy restaurant in the U.S. only to be completely disappointed and resigned to eating bits of steak and grilled prawns from off of my date’s plate. But this suck was fantastic, lightly glazed in a sweet sauce, and sliced thin to lay easily into the wrapper. Side dishes included a plethora of Chinese staples such as rice, steamed vegetables, tofu, and beans. It was the first of many feasts we would have in China.

Feeling a bit dehydrated from all the travel, I drank my weight in water and tea the next day. Jasmine, green tea, and chrysanthemum were among the varieties I consumed, and of course, bottled water so as not to risk illness this early in the trip. And after another abundant lunch at on e of our Chinese partner universities, we headed out for a Tibetan meal, because unfortunately our previous reservation at a Mongolian restaurant had been canceled. Still full from the previous meal, I found it difficult to put anything down. And if any place could be more perfect for fasting, it was the Tibetan restaurant. I don’t think I’ve eve seen so much food in my life (and this includes 30+ years of Thanksgivings, Christmases, pot-lucks, and various large meals at my Spanish grandparents and other relatives’ homes). Did you parents ever tell you to eat all of your food because there were children starving in China? We could have fed several villages of children with the food that was left on our table. Somehow that just didn’t sit right with me.

The following day, we visited our other partner university in Beijing and again, were treated to an abundant (though this time quite delicious) meal. We dined at a Manchurian restaurant, which was adorned with beautiful bright colored décor and waitresses that wore elaborate headdresses and served us more chrysanthemum tea. Typical Chinese fare was brought to us again, and served on a revolving table so items could be passed around. A familiar dish was presented again that I had taken to in one of our previous meals. It was a light glaze with lima beans, lotus seeds and shrimp. And it was delicious. I was learning to eat slowly and take in only small portions, as you never knew what dishes would come out next. I didn’t want to fill up on the early dishes, only to be too full to consume some of the delicacies that would come later in the meal. And when the steamed pork dumplings arrived on the table, I was oh so glad I had saved room! Steamed dumplings just might be the best invention the Chinese have ever produced. The remainder of my time in China, I would eat nothing but dumplings. Steamed, fried, Shanghai-style with broth on the inside, I’ll take dumplings any way they serve them. My mouth is watering now at the recollection of those fine little morsels of deliciousness.

To work off the gluttonous meals we’d enjoyed, our fearless leader had arranged for us to hike 10 kilometers on a portion of the Great Wall of China where very few tourists go. We stayed in a rustic hotel near the wall, and woke at 4:00am to head to the wall for our early morning, “sunrise hike”. And while it was too foggy (smoggy?) to see the actual rising of the sun, we did have an amazing experience trekking up and down the wall that morning. We were lucky to have a cool and misty morning, as the heat would have made the 10k hike unbearable. We saved the unbearable heat and trekking for later that afternoon when we went to visit the forbidden city. All I could think of during that little cultural outing, is that I wished the city and the palaces within were somehow still “forbidden”. That night, however, we had a lovely massage at beautiful salon, where we were again served steamed pork dumplings and chrysanthemum tea.

After four days in Beijing, we hopped a flight to Shanghai, a city of 21 million inhabitants, and perhaps about a million more who had descended on the largest city in China for the 2010 World Expo. Shanghai is quite beautiful at night, which was about the only time I enjoyed going out of the hotel. During the day, Shanghai is swampy, smoggy, humid and hot. Walking around in Shanghai, it is easy to feel drained from just a short jaunt through town. But of course, we were touring campuses and sight-seeing, so extensive walking was on order. But despite the treacherous daytime wanderings through a crowded and smoggy city, experiencing the night in Shanghai was rather striking. Our first evening, we dined at a gorgeous restaurant overlooking the Bund, the river and the amazing Shanghai skyline. That dinner, I believe consisted of 14 courses, though I tried to hold myself to under 10 of the dishes. There was duck tongue (very salty- not my fave), fried shrimps, steamed shrimps, lobster, steamed grouper, boiled pigeon soup, tender beef on the bone, two types of dumplings, and a cheesecake and fruit desert. It was positively indulgent. We reasoned that the 10k hike on the Great Wall and a few trips to the gym would make up for all of this overeating in China.

And now, we are off to Chiang Mai, Thailand for what I can only assume will include more gluttonous meals and cultural dichotomies. There is much more I could write about China, but I’ll save the rest for stories I may tell on the return home.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Boston and Newwww Yooork





Ever since the Jay Z and Alicia Keys song "Empire State of Mind" came out, I can't say New york without singing it. I have to say, "In Newwww yooooork, concrete jungle where dreams are made of, there's nothing you can't do, let's hear it for neeewwww yoooorrrk".

But that was the end of my trip. Let's start at the beginning.

Boston. Cue the Augustana song, "I think I'll go to Boston.... I think I'll start a new life, I think I'll start all over, where no one knows my name... I'll get out of California, I'm tired of the weather... I think I'll get a lover... and fly him out to Spain...."

And I think I really would go to Boston if I wanted to get out of CA. I love Boston. Even in the dead of winter with snow falling on the ground, Boston is beautiful. I love the people there - they have such heart. Die-hard sports fans. My cab driver had the thickest Boston accent and chatted my ear off the whole way to the airport, telling me how much he loved Boston, the four seasons, all four major sports, and the best colleges in America. I agree. Boston is a great city. Which is why I jumped on the chance to head out there and cover for one of my colleagues.

When I arrived in Boston, it was a gorgeous evening. I hopped in my little rental car, let the GPS warm up a bit and headed for my hotel in Downtown, near Quincy Market. The hotel itself left much to be desired, but it was all about location. It was an easy walk to nearby restaurants and bars, and I was wishing I could stay longer, so I’d have more time to enjoy Boston. I had plans to meet up with a friend of mine who now lives there, so I called up Dr. Boston and we headed to the Ames hotel for a nice dinner and a couple glasses of wine. It was the day after Valentine’s Day and approaching his 30th b-day, so we had a little toast to that, and I enjoyed a delicious plate of seared scallops, while he opted for a gourmet grilled cheese and bacon sandwich with tomato soup. In all, it was a beautiful night, sitting by the window and the fireplace, looking out over downtown Boston.

The next morning, I awoke to soft, light snowflakes falling, and it made me think of that song, “These are a few of my favorite things”. :) I’m not sure what it is about Boston I like so much, but it’s one of my favorite cities to visit in the U.S. and let’s just say I was not at all disappointed when I got “stuck” there for an extra night, due to snow and heavy rains all up and down the east coast. I got to hang out with Doc Boston for a little longer and rest up a bit for the next part of the trip – NYC and Jersey.

Flying over Manhattan, I am always amazed at how they fit all those gigantic buildings on one tiny island. Why is it that so many people want to live in NYC? I love New York, don’t get me wrong, but it is a little crazy how crowded it is. I decided I was going to take public transportation everywhere so I could save a little money and feel what it was like to live like a real New Yorker. I did well on the subway, and even took the bus out for a night (which you would never do in LA, but everyone seemed to be doing it in NY). The bus was a funny experience as I sat across from this young aspiring model/actor boy who was totally trying to hit on the older woman sitting a few seats away from me. He had to have been all of about 19 years old, and she was maybe 29/30, and clearly not interested. He thought he was so impressive telling her that he was just in a couple of commercials and was auditioning for some lame TV show. She said, “Oh, is that where you’re headed now?” And he goes, “Nah, I think I’m just going to go get high with some friends. Wanna come?” I’m in my seat, trying desperately not to crack a smile, but I am about to lose it when he says to her, “There’s a couple of great clubs in the meatpacking district. Will I see you there, later?” This kid had no shame whatsoever. Everyone on the bus was trying not to laugh. It was good entertainment. And although the bus and the subway were cool for getting around the city, I decided to skip the train the next day and rent a car for my trip to Jersey. Honestly, it was a piece of cake, and much more tranquil than my rides in and out of JFK and LGA with the SuperShuttle guys. OMG – I almost needed a Xanax, and would have liked to have slipped the driver one if I could have. Seriously, the driver on Xanax would have been safer (and much calmer) than he was on whatever he was on – pure stress, I’m thinking. Do they have more heart attacks in NYC than anywhere else? I’d be willing to bet they do. The stress can kill you out there. And if the stress doesn’t get you, the food will…. But at least with the food you will die happy. :)

Every time I go to NYC, I was I had four stomachs. It’s a good thing I did walk so much while I was there, because I could have gained 10 pounds if I’d eaten all I really wanted to. It all started on my layover at LGA to BOS, when I ordered a barbequed chopped chicken salad at the airport (yes, even the airport has near 5-star food). This was no wimpy salad, and I come from California where salads are an art and a science. These two huge mounds of lettuce were covered in chunky blue cheese and balsamic vinegar, and topped with fresh tender slices of barbequed chicken. It was so artful and delicious that I took a picture of it. :) The stage was set for some feasting in NYC.

I know you are supposed to have a hot dog in Central park, and a slice of pizza from one of the many NY-style pizzerias… yada, yada, yada, but when I got o New York, all I see are the schwarma and gyro stands, the little Vietnamese place with hot steaming bowls of Pho, the kosher delis with bearded guys in yarmulkes serving matzo ball soup, and this amazing Peruvian restaurant on the upper East Side that is a favorite of my good friend Heather’s and mine. I just got hungry thinking back on all this deliciousness.

New York is an intense place. The people are intense, the traffic, the food, everything. And then there's the noise. Horns are honking at all hours of the night. Why is everybody in such a hurry? I actually think they should get rid of all the cabs in NYC and everyone could just walk around in peace. Haha, yeah right. I love New York, but after a few days... I was ready to go back to San Diego.

Airport / Airplane Etiquette, please!

I've been wanting to write this one for awhile. Obviously, when you fly nearly every week for business, you are confronted with all sorts of human behaviors that you wouldn't normally be confronted within a given week. Right now, for example, I am sitting right across from a very obnoxious, short-tempered man who has chosen the airport seating area as his venue for clearing the air with his colleagues about some criticism they had given him at a previous meeting. He has a mouth full of a Quiznos sandwich, heavy on the onions, and is spitting lettuce as he is demanding his colleagues tell him how he can improve on his behaviors. I want to tell him that he can start by not talking with his mouth full (for one). Choosing a proper venue (like a conference room for example) to have a feedback session with his colleagues would be a nice adjustment to his maladaptive behavior. Ahh, ok, I think the nice man sitting next to him has counseled him (ever so quitely) to discuss this later. Thank you, nice (quiet) man.

So, here's the thing. People with babies, elderly people with walkers and wheelchairs.... you are not the enemy. I have all the patience in the world for you. No one feels worse on the airplane than the poor lady who is holding the crying baby. Not much she can do, and EVERYONE hates her. I give her a pass, as long as she is humbly trying to console the baby and doing everything she can. The people I can't stand are the damn salesy/business guy types who think they are so damned important that they have to make multiple business calls, whilst walking through the airport, standing in line to get on the plane and right up until the plane leaves. Yeah... such and such deal is really going to go down while you are walking through the airport shouting to everyone in earshot about your stupid business. We don't care. We know you have a blackberry with email and text messaging. Use it! No one wants to hear your convo, buddy. My other favorite is the guy who drinks several cocktails and flirts with the woman sitting next to him the whole plane ride, constantly talking about how cool and fabuouls he is. And then as soon as the plane lands, he puts his wedding ring back on and calls his wife, saying "Sweetie, I missed you. Let me talk to Junior. Daddy misses you. Are you coming to pick me up? I'm here, you can come get me now". Jackass.

Oooooh.... and these are the people I REALLY hate. Line-cutters! There is an order to how the airport and the airplane work, people. It's called, whoever is ahead of you in line, stays ahead of you in line. It's that simple. Stay in your place in line. And be quiet. Please don't be making phone calls in my ear right behind me in line, while you are encroaching ever so closely into my space. Keep your distance. Once on the plane, there is also an order. When the plane lands, passengers should deplane according to their seat row, front to back. I HATE the people who try to bolt from row 30, and stand in the freakin' aisle next to my seat, and I haven't even had a chance to unbuckle my seatbelt yet. Back up, buddy! Wait your turn. The seat rows are numbered for your convenience. This is why I always try to sit at the front of the plane. So I can trip people who try to go out of turn. Ok, maybe I don't do that, but I want to. I was just in the security line and the lady behind me not only picked up her bins before I picked up mine (WTF?) but she also tried to go through the detector in front of me, when she was clearly in line AFTER me. And I'm efficient. I've got my shoes, jacket and belt off before I even hit the bins. Laptop is out, ready to go, and I'm free of all metals, liquids and firearms. I'm quick. So, wait your turn, lady!

Maybe this is why they have bars at airports. It's 11am and I could use a drink. ;)

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Trying to find an apple in Albuquerque

So, as I mentioned before... eating is a big part of this whole Up in the Air thing. I gained several pounds on the road this past fall when I was travelling every week for fairs from WA to CA, not to mention the 2 weeks in Australia and New Zealand with three meals out at nice restaurants every day. The challenges of eating on the road, are: really bad (and expensive) airplane/airport food, a lack of healthier eating choices in cities where you just don't know what you'll find, eating on the go which means you just grab whatever you can fin, eating way too many starches and carbs at the fairs (because they serve you a big ol’ sandwich at damn near every fair)


  • ... and then there are the dinners out with advisers and other providers (where everyone tends to indulge). Meals are often eaten at irregular times due to time changes, airport delays, busy fairs, or all of the above. I try to walk a little here and there, and choose a hotel with a fitness center... but sometimes the demands of the job outweigh exercise and healthy food choices. I’ve ordered a lot of room service over the past six months... because frankly, if I can eat from my room and work at the same time, I get more done. Glamorous life, huh?

    It’s not all bad... and I am learning how to find balance and make better choices on the road. I don’t need to be a “road warrior”. The burnout factor in these jobs is high, and the fun, exciting, sexy part of travelling can get old if you don’t allow for some real life fun, or even rest and exercise. I’ll be honest... as much as I would love to hit up the nightlife (or even have a nice dinner) in every city I visit, there have been many nights where I am in bed with my laptop at 7pm.

    Albuquerque was one of those places. I flew into El Paso on a Tuesday night and drove into Las Cruces. My hotel was close to the New Mexico State campus, but aside from that, I had no idea where anything was. I figured I was in South New Mexico and I needed some good Mexican food. I really didn’t have time or energy to figure out the “hot spots” in Las Cruces... so as luck would have it, there was a place called Chilitos right next to my hotel. Not pleased with the outside appearance of Chilitos, I decided to get in the car and drive around until I found something that looked better. After driving in circles and finding nothing more than a few AM/PM mini marts and some scary looking spots with bars on the windows... Chilitos it was. And it really wasn’t bad. Chicken Fajita Salad to go, and I was back in my hotel Very sexy, I know. ;)

    New Mexico State turned out to be a great fair. In typical Danelle fashion, I had some trouble reading the maps and finding my way around campus, including finding parking, which is often an issue on college campuses (and I would know since I have visited over 40 of them by now). Eventually I just parked in a metered spot and hoped I wouldn’t get a ticket when the timer ran out. I was wrong. $20 ticket (but could have been worse – I got one for $50 at UCSD, and then talked it down to $10). I actually really liked being in New Mexico and hearing all the Spanish being spoken. It reminded me of my study abroad experiences in Spain and travels to Mexico. My ears perk up every time I hear Spanish – I just love it.

    Headed up to Albuquerque after the NMSU fair, and hit a bit of hard rain and a few accidents between Las Cruces and ABQ. Fortunately, I have learned (a little) from past mistakes and did not schedule anything for Wednesday night. Previously, I may have tried to get there and speak to classes or student orgs, but I’ve since realized that scheduling too much just stresses me out. See, I’m learning! ;)

    I honestly can barely remember Albuquerque. I had the idea that I was going to try to explore downtown if I could and see what ABQ was all about, but when I finally got there, I bought some cheese and crackers and a tiny bottle of wine and called it a night. The UNM fair was the next day, and it went really well. Food options at UNM were quite good. They had this great middle eastern place on campus and the chicken shwarma, hummus and pita really hit the spot. That night I decided to skip the wine and cheese and try to find a healthy meal. All I really wanted was some fruit and vegetables. If I could just find an apple, I would be happy. What I often do is go to Safeway or other supermarket and just buy some healthy food and take it back to my room. Couldn’t find a grocery store, and didn’t want to go to a restaurant chain like Applebees or Fridays. I just wanted a salad and an apple. I drove around and around and still couldn’t find anything more than a 7-11. I figured I’d give it a try, but still... no apples. Finally I broke down and went to Arby’s across the street. I figured even if it was iceberg lettuce, they’d probably have some form of a salad. And I was in luck – they did have an iceberg lettuce and chicken salad.  I walk up to the guy at the counter, and he’s got piercings in his eyebrows, lip, ears and maybe his tongue. He has tattoos covering both arms. He smiles and asks if he can help me. I look at him and say “I’ll have the chicken salad (grilled, not fried)”, and he says, “anything else?” I half-smile/half-smirk and say, “you don’t have any fruit, do you?” And he says, I’ve got an apple in the back if you want that”. Why yes, kind, tattooed and pierced all over young Arby’s counter guy, “I would love an apple”, I say. It really is the little things. 

Friday, January 29, 2010

A new blog begins... about my life Up in the Air

I decided to start blogging again. There are just too many crazy things that happen on the road and up in the air that I simply feel I must share them with someone... or at least for me, blogging is a way to spit out all the random thoughts that are in my head. If nothing else, I know my family will be reading my blog. They happen to think my life is interesting. I'm glad somebody does. :)

So, here I am at the Denver Airport, sitting at the bar with a pint of sundance amber ale (very nice actually) and a plate full of chips and guacamole. All diets go out the window when you are traveling. Just when I lost the 7 pounds or so I packed on during Fall Semester's every-week-on the road crazy recruting schedule, now I'm back up in the air and consuming beer and chips.

This week has been especially rough. I looove my job, I really do. I get to travel around the country recruting college students to study abroad in Australia, New Zealand and Asia. And when I'm not traveling, I get to work from home! I do love my job.

The only thing is I don't love Colorado. I know this isn't a popular opinion, and my friends from Colorado might hate me for saying it. I've had good visits to CO I guess. I came out here with my friend Kat for a ski and spa trip that her company paid for... and that was nice. Really nice, actualy. And I came out to Denver on a trip that UCLA paid for when I worked there. And that was nice. But this trip.... not my favorite.

First off, I spent all day in San Diego working at a study abroad fair from about 9-3. Then I head to SD airport (which is amazing - I love small airports).... and head to Denver. I get in around 8pm to Denver and take a shuttle to the Hertz Rental car shop, where they have no record of my reservation. Having recently decided to become very organized, I pulled out my print confirmation form, highlighted in yellow, and show it to the agent. She says she has no record of it, makes a phone call, huffs and puffs and moves slower than a turtle... and an hour later I have a freakin car. It's now snowing and nearing 10:00pm and I have to drive another hour or so to Fort Collins. Did I mention it's snowing? And I'm in a rental car that I don't really know how to drive, and it's really dark (in LA we have really well-lit freways, probably because there are constantly people driving at any time of night). In Colorado, it's a very dark highway from Denver to Fort Collins and I'm tired and it's dark and it's snowing. grrrr. About two hours later I get to Fort collins. Ok, I drove realllly slow because of the snow. And had to stop and get coffee. So, it's almost midnight and I check into hotel and pass out.

The next morning I wake up and I am soooo light-headed. I still am by the way. It is now two days later and I am still completely spacey from this damned altitude. Anyway, the Colorado State Fair went really well and I loved the campus. CSU is beautiful. Snow and all. :) And the students were really great too. I do love Colorado people. I just don't really love it here. Mostly because I really don't like being super spacy and having zero energy. But the fair went great, and I decided to get back to Denver while there was still some sunlight, because I wasn't crazy about driving that highway in the dark again. I get back to Denver and find my way to my hotel at about 6pm. Ordered room service and fell asleep at about 7:30. too tired to stay up and work. And too spacey. Did I mention that the altitude is affecting me?? grrr... goodnight.

So, that was last night. I tried to sleep in, but knew I had to get up and work. Room service was 45 minutes late with my coffee and breakfast so I got it free, which was nice. Wow. I'm not sure if they make coffee stronger here or if it was (again) the altitude, but that coffee made me high as a kite! I stayed at the hotel until the very last minute before check-out time, tried exercising at the gym to see if that would help (it didn't - have you ever tried working out in high altitude?)
Bumbled my way through the streets of downtown Denver, and finally found Metro State (two failed attempts with wrong addresses on blackberry, and one phone call later to get the correct address). Believe it or not, I was on time for my 1pm meeting. And the meeting was great! Met an adviser who had lived in Barcelona just like I did, and she was super cool (most people in education abroad are pretty cool, by the way... we've all traveled and lived abroad and have tons of great stories). Two hours later, we're still gabbing and everything is cool, and I am starting to think that maybe I could learn to like Denver. If only I could adjust to this altitude.